Who Must Pay Child Support FAQ

Answers to commonly asked questions about when a parent must pay child support.

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Is a father who never married the mother still required to pay child support?

Is a stepparent obligated to financially support his or her stepchildren?

Do I have to pay child support if my ex keeps me away from my kids?

How long must parents support their children?

Do fathers have the same right to child support as mothers?

The short answer to this question is yes. When a mother is not married, however, there can sometimes be confusion about who the child's legal father is for purposes of support. An "acknowledged father" is any biological father of a child born to unmarried parents for whom paternity has been established by either the admission of the father or the agreement of the parents. Acknowledged fathers are required to pay child support. Additionally, a man who never married the child's mother may be presumed to be the father if he welcomes the child into his home and openly holds the child out as his own. .

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No, a stepparent is never obligated to support stepchildren unless the stepparent legally adopts the children.

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Yes. Child support should not be confused with custody and visitation. Every parent has an obligation to support his or her children. With one narrow exception, no state allows a parent to withhold support because of disputes over visitation. The exception? If the custodial parent disappears for a lengthy period so that no visitation is possible, a few courts have ruled that the noncustodial parent's duty to pay child support may be considered temporarily suspended.

No matter what the circumstances, if you believe that your ex is interfering with your visitation rights, the appropriate remedy is to go back to court to have your rights enforced rather than to stop making support payments.

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Biological parents and adoptive parents must support a child until:

• the child reaches the age of majority (and sometimes longer if the child has special needs or is in college)
• the child is on active military duty
• the parents' rights and responsibilities are terminated (for example, when a child is adopted), or
• the child has been declared emancipated by a court. (Emancipation can occur when a minor has demonstrated freedom from parental control or support and an ability to be self-supporting.)

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Yes. If you're a father with custody, you have the right to ask for child support. Each parent has a duty to support his or her children, and that duty doesn't discriminate between genders.

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